How To Clean Your Nunu After S$x, Because They Just Don’t Teach You The Useful Things In School


We love giving you tips for how to tap into your sexual potential and troubleshoot when things aren’t going your way in the bedroom. But what about finding solutions to those stressful sexual health situations that inevitably crop up when you’re getting down? This week’s topic: how to clean your nunu  after s$x.

Q: I just start having s$x a year ago. I really like it — but s$x with men is so messy! I’ve been taking a shower immediately after s$x and scrubbing my vulva and inside my nunu to get rid of the mess down there, but my friends say I’m a clean freak and I don’t need to do that. Do I need to clean up my nunu after s$x, and if so, how?

A: My middle school health teacher used to say that “it’s the slippery juices that make s$x feel good” (I was lucky and grew up in Nairobi), and when I became sexually-active, I had to admit that he was for sure correct about that. But all that vaginal self-lubrication, any synthetic lube you may add, and semen (if you have s$x without a condom to catch that stuff) do add up to something of a mess in the nunu afterwards. What to do?

I’ll come right out and say it: In the vast majority of circumstances, you don’t need to clean your nunu after s$x.